English Lesson - Advanced - 4 of 6

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Ok so we've looked at

adjectives and prepositions,

we've looked at phrasal verbs,

and now something that I think

is very helpful and something that

you hear a lot in every day conversation

by native English speakers are IDIOMATIC PHRASES.

I'm going to take different types

of idiomatic phrases and i'm going to give you

6 examples of each one.

So we're going to start with relationships.

I have 6 idioms that I think are very common,

that I use a lot in my every day speach with

my friends or my family.

So let's look at them.

At each other's throats

A shoulder to cry on

Through thick and thin

Don't see eye to eye

Clear the air

Fight like cats and dogs

So some of them are positive

and some of them are negative.

So let's look at each other's throats;

this part is your throat.

So if you think about Homer Simpson and Bart Simpson.

What's the most common picture or situation

that you see the two of them in.

It's Homer Simpson with Bart and they're fighting.

It's an idiom to show that two people are fighting.

They areat each other's throats“.

So just think of Homer and Bart Simpson.

Two people are fighting.

A shoulder to cry on is a supportive idiom,

you're saying if you have a problem give me a call,

there's always a shoulder to cry on.

So imagine your friend has a problem

they put their head on your shoulder

and they cry and you listen to what

they are having to say.

It's not literal, you're not saying

here look put your head on my shoulder

and you can cry.

You're saying i'm here to listen to you

if you need somebodey to talk to.

I need a shoulder to cey on,

I need somebodey to listen to my problems.

Through thick and thin, is

thick being thick and thin being thin.

If I sayhe has been my friend through thick and thin

So we're saying through the bad times

and through the good times.

He's always been my friend.

When we've hed really bad problems

and when we've had really good times.

Through thick and thin.

Don't see eye to eye.

Means we don't agree.

We don't have the same opinion.

We're not saying that we have a very bad relationship

or that I really don't like this person, we're just

saying we don't see eye to eye.

It's also a very polite way of saying that

you don't like somebody.

You can't say „I hate this personor

„I really son't like that person

you don't see eye to eye.

We just don't really agree on certain things,

we don't have the same opinion.

To clear the air; If i've had a fight

with somebody or I've had an argument,

a disagreement, to clear the air

is I go to this person and I say look

Can we talk about what happened?

I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to say these things“.

Or can we talk what happened,

I really feel like you we're very agressive

and you shouldn't have spoken to me like that.

But I want to apologise for the way that I've spoken.

It's all of the bad air, negative air after the fight

or the problem and you want to clear the air.

You want to make the situation or your relationship better.

And the very last one, it's a very common one.

To fight like cats and dogs“.

So we know that cats and dogs, they are not suppose to like each other.

They are supposed to fight.

So if we say that they were fighting like cats and dogs,

The children were fighting like cats and dogs,

it means that they were having a big argument or

they were having a big fight.

So there are your six idioms for relationships,

some being positive and some being negative.

Ok so let's look at some idions for agreeing and

disagreeing with people. So I've chosen 4.

Over my dead body

You took the words right out of my mouth

You can say that again

You must be joking

Over my dead body.

So say something is going to happen,

and you replyover my dead body“.

You are not going to let this happen.

The person will have to kill you for this to happen.

Maybe for example; You're 16 years of age and you say

„I want to go to the disco until 3 o'clock in the morning

and the reply from the parents would beover my dead body“-

This is not going to happen unless you kill me.

You're going to have kill me and then this can happen.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

It's like saying what this person said, it's like

they took the words out of your mouth.

Like you were about to say this, or

what they said is exactly your

opinion about this situation.

Sol theytook the words out of your mouth“.

It's almost like they read your mind.

They could see what you were thinking in your mind.

You agree with what this person has said.

So somebody gives their opinion and you

sayyou can say that again“.

Say it again because it's true.

You agree with it, you think

what they said is right or correct.

So you're making it strong and you're telling

them that we have the same opinion.

You can say that again

And finally, „you must be joking“,

is to showe somebody that you don't

have the same opinion.

Somebody says something and you say

you must be joking“.

You don't have the same opinion as them.

But what they said or what they're thinking

you thinkit must be a joke, that can't be

seriousyou must be joking.

So those are foure idioms to do with

agreeing and disagreeing with people.