- [John] I've been talking to dead people for years.
- [Narrator] Today, John Medium
meets Becky Beckerson, a YouTuber.
- It seems as though you're looking to connect
with someone who has died, am I right?
- No, no, no, don't tell me anything about him.
- Why? - It's okay. We can edit.
Yeah, I'm getting a male presence.
Did you have a father figure pass recently?
- No.
- But you just said your father...
- Yeah, my dad wants you to ask my uncle-
- Shh! Don't tell me anything!
It's your mother's brother, right?
- No. - I'm pretty sure it is.
- (groans) Becky? - And who's Becky?
And it looks like there's a scar
around this, like, the knee area.
Like every kid, I fell off my bike,
Can you please just ask my uncle
where he left his PlayStation?
Because we can't find it and my dad wants to play it.
- Shh! It doesn't work that way!
as though we have your brother here,
and he loves you and he's watching you.
- Oh, really? That's weird, because he's still alive, too.
- Um, well, who's this, then? (inhuman creature screeching)
as though you're full of (beep).
- Stupid.
You need these every day when you speak English,
when you eat, drink, guess about a situation,
when you talk to someone, when you smell their hair.
So let's learn how to use all of them correctly in English.
Look, feel, smell, taste, and sound.
When you actively use those senses, like...
"She is looking at him intensely."
That describes how we are actively doing something,
"Intensely." The adverb. (sniffs)
I'm smelling my phone carefully. An adverb.
The adverb describes how I actively use that sense.
how something hits your senses, like this.
"Mmm! It smells like onion and garlic."
By the way, we all agree that onion and garlic frying
in butter, oh, my God, that is the best smell ever.
Like, we all agree on that, right? Mmm.
Anyway, when something hits your senses,
use that sense verb with "like"
It smells like onion and garlic.
Often, I have to tell my friends,
It tastes just like real meat. Right?"
"this is exactly the same as this,"
use "it's just like," again, with a noun.
If you want to describe using an adjective...
With an adjective, just the sense verb. No "like."
Okay, let's quickly practice this.
If you have my eBook, lots of practice in there.
But if you don't, don't worry.
Practice in the comments or practice in your notes.
What can you see, smell, taste, feel?
Maybe you're eating something while you watch this.
It's probably weirder that I'm talking
to you and watching you while you eat.
Your clothes, the pen in your hand, how does it feel?
Practice this right now in the comments,
in your notes, or, as I said, in my eBook,
available on patreon.com or on my website, papateachme.com.
she wants to describe his appearance,
how he looks, using a full sentence.
You look like you haven't slept."
In this case, with a full sentence,
use sense verb + "like" + that full sentence
"You look as though you haven't slept."
"You look like you haven't slept."
"You look as if you haven't slept."
Not really any difference in meaning.
is these two sound a bit more formal.
You can use all three and it's fine.
Or you could act like a detective
and say what you think a situation is.
For example, if your teacher asks you
"Have you done your homework?"
and you haven't done it, but you still say yes,
they might look at your face and not believe you.
Like, "It seems you're lying."
Yes, there's something missing here.
it means "when I observe this situation,
"It seems as if you're lying."
"It seems as though you're lying."
Again, you're saying, "I don't know 100%,
but when I observe this situation,
Or hear or smell or taste. Whatever.
So again, with "like," "as though," "as if,"
you're saying, "From my perspective,
this is how I understand this situation."
So we could use other verbs with that structure, like this.
For example, if someone you care about keeps farting
and you want them to stop but they don't stop,
"You fart like you don't care that I can smell it!"
Remember, we're describing how something is,
so we can, because this is a full sentence,
use "as if" or "as though" with that full sentence.
"You fart as if you don't care that I can smell it."
And remember, if you use a noun, you can't use "as if"
or "as though" with a noun, only "like."
"Ugh, you fart like a vegetarian!"
Okay, let's put everything from this lesson together
the next morning, how do you feel?
You could use an adjective, a noun, or a full sentence
to describe how you feel in this situation.
Sense verb with what for each of them?
The full sentence, what can we use?
Well, we can use that "like" again
Do you remember what they were?
"I feel as though," "I feel as if"
I feel as though I got in the head with a hammer."
And remember, when you make a guess about a situation,
Remember, this means "from the appearance
of this situation, this is what I think."
"You seem you drank a lot last night."
You're right. It's not correct.
"You seem as if you drank a lot last night."
"You seem like you drank a lot last night."
A common mistake that I have to correct is this one.
if you just use an adjective, don't use "like."
Here, we've got both an adjective and a noun.
Well, it doesn't matter what comes first.
If there is a noun, use "like."
"Maria seems like a nice person."
"Maria seems nice." (clicks tongue)
Okay, you see someone who's very beautiful.
So how can you tell her using "you look"?
Tell her how pretty she is using "you look"
and then an adjective, a noun, or a full sentence,
like "You look as if you just came from a fashion show."
Practice that in the comments or in your notes
You can get it on patreon.com/papateachme
or papateachme.com, my official website.
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